Trust in the Gap


Autism and Spirituality: the Dance

It finally happened. Blue Eyes and i have seen a clue or two and we wondered if it was coming – but yesterday it definitively happened.

Dallas let Joseph know that he is DONE being his best friend, DONE being his friend at all.

Joseph has autism. He doesn’t gain the understanding of how to be a friend by osmosis. And as social mores change in puberty, he has not adapted. Sometimes he seems like an 8 year old hanging around preteens.

To make matters worse, obsession, which often seems to link arms with autism, formed in Joseph’s feelings toward Dallas. He thought about him, wrote about him, spoke about him, dreamed about him, sang silly songs about him (the latter in front of Dallas’ peers). He joined sports teams that Dallas joined. He shadowed Dallas everywhere he went. I experienced the shadow thing during the cruise and it nearly…

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